Saturday, 16 February 2013

Just normal

Every month I write a page long article or essay on the topic of quilting... And it gets published in the newsletter of the Common Thread Quilt Guild in Ottawa, where I was a member before I moved away... this is the article I wrote for March 2013. I am currently visiting my son, his wife and my two grandsons, so I actually made it to the Guild meeting as a guest this week past. They had the BEST Show and Share I have ever seen... In any event, here's the article:
 
I have been listening to new podcasts this week, while I am away from my sewing machine. I was listening to one that relates to quilting and the interviewer asked the interviewee what she was working on. And the interviewee (whose name I did not catch, but who was a blogger who details her progress on-line) proceeded to talk about the quilts that she was working on. And she sounded embarrassed to admit that she had about 5 quilts in progress AT THE SAME TIME. I thought the interviewer (also a quilter) handled the whole thing very well, because she said to her, "Oh, you are just normal, then!"

I have written musings on this topic before. I think I mentioned the woman in the fabric store who only allows herself to buy the fabric to make ONE project at a time. And her personal rule is, she must finish that project before she goes on to do another. (I have to say, if I worked in a fabric store this would be the only way that I would ever get to take home a paycheck... otherwise I would just sign the thing over, and walk out with additions to my stash...)

I have many quilting friends. And I don't think I know ANYONE else who follows that personal rule. I love to have several projects on the go (as long as they don't get too far ahead of me, of course!) I like to have something that I am binding, something that I am cutting, something that I am planning, something that I am piecing (although that stage usually gets me so excited that I forge on with it and get it quilted and the binding on there) AND something all ready to quilt. (I'm not keen on having something ready to go onto the frame - but I am pretty pleased with myself when I have something ON the frame, ready to go!) I'm also pretty enthused about having something that I am learning on the go too, something new to me... I'm beginning to think about what to do with these one-off blocks...

Each stage in a quilt is different. The nice thing about binding something is that that is a portable project (when so many quilting things are not!) And, of course, when the binding is done the quilt is finished too. (Usually) The nice thing about cutting is that once the pieces go on the design wall, you begin to see how the quilt is going to look when it is all finished. The nice thing about piecing is that it works up so fast and you can see progress happening before your very eyes, and the nice thing about planning is that it is SO exciting!!! And the quilting itself is wonderful (when everything goes well) because you are beginning to finish the quilt! I love all those steps and I feel eager to get on with each one of them. And I might actually get bored with working on the same quilt or project. Sometimes I intermix projects as a reward. Do this boring bag, and you can be rewarded by starting that pretty baby quilt... or make these three blocks, so that you can be rewarded by taking this quilting class and starting THAT neat project! Interspersing steps means that I will shortly have two exciting projects done rather than one that I have gotten slightly tired of working on!

I know that there are people who work so hard on something, or they find it so difficult, or they are so worried that it isn't perfect that they grow to hate a project; and as a result it goes under the bed or in a box and never gets finished. I have never had this happen with quilting. It may be because I don't tend to let projects carry on too long -- so I don't get tired of them. I have made a few projects where I will never do again (stack and whack comes to mind) but I finished them (and gave them away!)

So here's the point of this diatribe: Normal is defined as: conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnomal; regular; natural. By this definition, if you have several projects on the go (and even a few that aren't actually going anywhere) then you are absolutely NORMAL!!

So, I would like to invite you to embrace your normalcy, enjoy your quilting and have fun!!

Friday, 1 February 2013

Just having a baby...

Okay. Technically, I'm not having a baby. My daughter-in-law had the baby. And she had him early this morning and it was VERY exciting!!! I can hardly wait to meet him in person - just a few more days.

But it brought home to me the differences between having a baby NOW and having a baby 33 years ago in another country.

When I was pregnant for my oldest child (the Boy in question) we lived in West Germany. Beloved Dearly was in Canada's armed forces and the Canadian Forces hospital - the MIR (Medical Inspection Room) was considered Canadian soil so that our babies would be Canadian. I think that had only happened about three years before the Boy was born.... My girl friend had a baby who was in the breech position (bum down instead of head first, in case you don't know and care) and ended up having her baby in the German Krankenhaus - and her baby was NOT Canadian - I believe she had the right to chose when she turned 18 years old.

When I went into labour for the Boy (and we didn't KNOW we were having a boy), we were visiting friends. I was 11 days overdue and I felt and looked like I had swallowed an watermelon (and a large one at that!) intact! Around midnight my contractions were 2 minutes apart (and they remained 2 minutes apart from then until the Boy was born!) We had been told to go into the hospital if our water broke, if our contractions were really strong, or if they got closer together than 10 minutes apart. So off we went. I was in the mildest possible labour - but who knew? Certainly not me!

So we spent the night in the hospital, waiting. I dozed off and on, but poor Beloved was required to hold my hand! He tried to eat my breakfast (I certainly wasn't going to be able to) but he couldn't eat it one handed and I couldn't not hold his hand.

The Boy was born at 9:33 in the morning... and Beloved went off to let them know at work where he was and then to call the Grandparents to tell them the news.

This was 1980 - not the dark ages, but I would like to point out some things that I remember. We had a computer. It had NO memory at all. I don't think floppy disks were invented - but if they were they certainly weren't in any one's home... We connected it to the tv and you had to program it using Basic.

Cell phones had not been invented yet. Because we were overseas we didn't even have a telephone in our house. There were no such thing as 'long distance plans'. Canada's phone companies held a monopoly. There was no competitive pricing and long distance was EXPENSIVE. In Germany it cost a lot of money to have a phone put in, so we didn't have one. Neither did any of our friends.

If you wanted to make a long distance call you either took all your German coins (Deutschmarks) and went to the Internationaler Fernsprecher  (as far as I can remember the spelling) (The international telephone booth) and you fed the slot coins. When it beeped, you either fed it more coins or you hung up! Or you went to one of the Messes or the Salvation Army Gift Shop and booked an overseas call. Beloved headed off to the Salvation Army. You wrote the number in a book. The lady at the shop called the overseas operator and booked the call. You waited until they called back to say they had the line. You made your call, the overseas operator called back when you were done and told the lady at the gift shop how much you owed for the call and you paid her - in CASH - Bank cards had not been invented yet!

Beloved called my parents and his parents and told them the news!!


The following words had not been invented in 1980:
Internet
Wifi
Cellphone
Tablet (other than a portable blackboard and chalk!)
 Android (at least not in the context of a tablet)
operating system
facebook
facebook status
notification
laptop
pm (or private messaging)
reboot
chat (in the context of computers)
apps
email

The Boy's second son was born this morning at 0120 in a hospital in a different province. Around 5:30 yesterday evening the Boy sent me an EMAIL to say that they were at the hospital; his DW's (Dear Wife, in case this isn't familiar to you!) water might have broken and they would keep us posted. He had her CELL PHONE and he would send me an EMAIL from it. (Even that sort of blows my mind, really!)

Around 8 pm (I'm guessing at the time, I'm tired now and my brain is not working so well!) I opened FACEBOOK to check on my friend's STATUSes, and discovered that the Boy was using his DW's FACEBOOK account to CHAT with me, over her CELL PHONE... She was definitely in labour, had gone 11 days early with our first grandson and, here we were 11 days early now. He would keep me informed.

I decided that I would turn on my TABLET. It is WIFI and so I would easily be able to carry it around with me. I turned it on, and turned on GMAIL, where I could access FACEBOOK - only to discover eventually (after running back into the kitchen every time there was a NOTIFICATION - which makes a little chiming noise) that I needed to use another APP to read my PRIVATE MESSAGES on FACEBOOK. Once I got the tablet REBOOTED and the new APP open, I was fine. When the Boy sent me a message, it would appear on my TABLET (which has the ANDROID operating system) in real time...

Did I mention that my mind was blown, just a bit?

Anyway. We chatted unil 02:33 (my time) when suddenly he introduced the baby, told me that he had been born very fast, the doctor had nearly missed the delivery, and that his DW and new Son were doing fine.

I reminded him to take pictures. And he told me there was one in my email!! They had taken a picture with the CAMERA in her CELL PHONE and had EMAILED it to me. OMG!

By the time the baby was weighed, it was 03:30 in the morning. I had seen a picture of him, heard how things went as they were happening, had his name and weight, and had reported all the info to Beloved.

Can you imagine? I don't know how long it was before my parents got a picture of the Boy - but it was at least two weeks!!!


Anyway, those are some thoughts on how technology has changed my life. This morning before I left to play cards with my Mom and Dad, the Boy chatted via gmail just to give us an update. And he suggested a VIDEO CALL. We saw our older grandson (not quite two years old - his life is about to make a radical change!) and heard him speak some words! We spoke with the Boy who got 1 hour's sleep last night, but was doing laundry and then going to head back to the hospital for visiting hours and to take the big brother in to meet the new baby brother... As I sat there, watching him talk on the screen of my laptop, like something out a black and white science fiction movie I thought to myself; "What a difference thirty years makes!!"

:-)



Friday, 18 January 2013

Just walkin'

Before we moved away from Ottawa, Barry and I bought a treadmill. It is quite a nice one, and once I got to the point where I could balance on it, I quite liked it.

I don't mind walking... but here's the thing. It is boring. And it takes some time. When we first got the treadmill iPods hadn't been invented yet. (What medieval times did we come from!!! Wowsers!)

In any event. I discovered that I couldn't hear, over the sound of the treadmill, ANYTHING - so listening to an audio book wasn't going to work. Music had to be turned up so loud that the roof tiles were dancing (and the treadmill was in the basement) and I was busy. I wanted to get this walk over with!

At the same time, I had a friend who was taking the Running Room's running course (come to find out, I had another future friend taking it with her.) I couldn't IMAGINE how a running course could possibly work. I couldn't have worked another class or activity into my schedule anyway, but I spoke with my friend about how a running class worked and decided to give it a try on my own.

I liked the idea of doing it on the treadmill because it meant that there was no time getting TO the class. I didn't have to be ON TIME for a class. AND if I had a heart attack jogging, I could toddle (I hoped) over to the phone and call 911 before I collapsed. Same if I twisted my ankle...

Anyway. I was pretty good about going on the treadmill and eventually I got to the point where I could run for 5 km without stopping (I think I did that twice). Then we got ready to move, and the treadmill became a feeble voice in the basement, occasionally calling, but easily ignored.

We moved, finished the basement of the house ourselves, stored the treadmill in the exercise room down there, and I became busy in our new community. Barry used the treadmill and his bowflex religiously for a year or so. And then they began to sit. I joined Tai Chi, which I love. I think it is good for me - it is the only exercise that makes me work my brain as well as my body.

In December, Barry came out of the den and spoke to me, while I had my left hand on the top cupboard door handle. And, without letting go of the cupboard, I twisted around to look at him. And something in my left shoulder made a funny noise. Then I made a funny noise. Mine sounded sort of like 'ouch'.

I took a week off of Tai Chi. And then I went, only to discover that my left arm did NOT want to be held up at shoulder height AT ANY TIME. I stayed for the first hour of the class and then came home. The following week, I stayed home too. And then there was a two week break over Christmas. The first Thursday after that (Yes, there is a point to this!) we had had snow on top of warm ground and then the air temperature had dropped. Barry had gone out to polish off the driveway, and when he came in, he announced that it was VERY slippery.

Our house has a sort of longish driveway, with a ditch on either side of the end of it, (or the beginning, I suppose, depending on which direction you are going!) and a ditch on the other side of the road. We have a full size pickup... which I was not eager to test for ditch-worthiness. (This is the point where the story starts to gain some relevance, by the way!) So, I got dressed in my Tai Chi outfit and I went downstairs to the treadmill and I walked for 55 minutes. I probably should have started with a shorter time, but I would have been at Tai Chi for 2 hours, so I wanted to actually use up some of that time. I went 5 km. (When I came upstairs Barry asked how far I had gone. So for a lark, I told him 1 1/2 km... Before he could get a full on rant going {what were you doing down there for so long if you only went 1 1/2 km} I managed to get him stopped, told him I was pulling his leg and that I had gone 5 km. I was soaking with sweat - I may be out of shape, but it wasn't quite THAT badly out of shape!)

I had been thinking about a facebook friend of mine who has been walking this year past. So I marked on the calendar, the distance that I had walked. I walked on the Friday as well; 3 km. Saturday we went shopping. I have no idea how far we walked, but we were out of the house for hours, and we had cat litter, cat food, $400+ of groceries, had returned two things, visited 7 stores, and I was absolutely exhausted. Sunday I walked. In fact, except for Thursday, I walked every day this week. Thursday I went to Tai Chi. And there is only one jong I can't do. Today my left arm feels better than ever, so I seem to be on the road to recovery!!

Unbeknownst to me, my friend achieved a personal goal TODAY - she walked more than 1000 km over the course of the last year; this was her one year anniversary. She did some incredible number of laps in a domed walking oval in her hometown in Ontario and she has been reporting on her walks, off and on, all year. She had set some goal for her birthday and more than met it.

I do not aspire to walking 1000 km - that goal seems too high for me at this point. But I am proud of my friend and was inspired by her to get going!! I'll let you know how it goes... Tomorrow, if I find time to walk 3 km, I will have completed my first 25 km! :-)


Monday, 14 January 2013

Just fun...

Okay, I have been thinking about "FUN" all day. I have to take a photo of 'fun', and I'm having trouble.

This is how Dictionary dot com defines fun:
1. something that provides mirth or amusement: A picnic would be fun.
 
It has been a busy grey day - the temperature was above freezing by 7 C degrees or about 14 F degrees (making it around 46 F for those of you who are math challenged... [I had written 52 at first, so I was poking fun at myself more than at anyone reading this who is not accustomed to performing routine metric conversions - or who can not add 32 and 14 - which, evidently, includes me...]). I went out of the house for half an hour and then came home and did my three kilometers on the treadmill, and then carefully cut out twice as much fabric as I needed for my current project. And then I couldn't figure out why I had so many units... Better too many than too few! :-)

So, here's the question, What would fun be? Fun for me would be a day in which I had no unpleasant responsibilities. It would be fun to get together with my friends! It would be fun to go to the beach with my camera. It would be fun to go to a fabric store with an unlimited budget!! (Oooo, that would be SO FUN! I would invite my friends to go with me and when we were done FILLING my pickup with fabric, we could go for coffee!!!)
Doing the laundry is not fun. (It isn't a terrible chore either, because I don't actually have to take the clothes down to the river and bang them on rocks - which is good, as the water is likely quite chilly!)

It was fun to put together my third Big Star Block. After I am finished writing this, I will head downstairs, trim another one and then play with the layout of the quilt. THAT is FUN!!
This is an awfully dark picture of it, and it hasn't been sewn together yet - it is just on the design wall... When it is done it will be roughly 24 inches square... see why it is called the Big Star Block? And the quilt will have 4 of them!
It was fun to play Candy Crush (a terrible time waster, but I like it anyway) and actually complete a level!! I actually took a picture of that! :-)

It was fun to watch an episode of Big Bang Theory (we got a season for Christmas, and we are really enjoying them!) We have been invited out to play Euchre (a card game) tomorrow evening, and that will be fun - unfortunately, it is not today! LOL

Writing this is fun. I'm not sure why. But it is satisfying to get something down that is in my head!!! 
There are lots of things that I enjoy. I'm not sure that enjoyment is the same thing as fun. Is it fun to drink my coffee in the morning? It is FUN to share my enjoyment of coffee with my facebook friends - and to hunt up cool coffee memes to share! THAT is fun!

I hope you had fun reading this. This completes my week of daily blog posts and I've had fun writing them. I don't know whether I will write one a day, but I have fun writing them so I'm sure there will be more!!
Enjoy!!


Sunday, 13 January 2013

Just another low carb recipe...

Varm Milch, perhaps?

I eat low carb. And once in awhile I take a high carb (ie, normal) recipe and redo it.

I wanted something warm to drink that was not caffeinated and non-alcoholic... So I looked up warm milk.

And I found grandma's recipe... which has rather alot of honey in it. I didn't care much for honey when I was not low carb, and I can't have it now... so this is what I did to modify it...

Oh, and the name of it is an homage to Young Frankenstein.

Varm Milch, perhaps?
(No, thank you, Frau Brucker! Neeeeiiiiigggghhhh!)

1 1/2 c. half and half (in the Maritimes that is called Blend, don't know why. In any event, 10% fat cream)
2 T Splenda
1 t. vanilla
pinch of cinnamon

Add Splenda to the cream, give it a stir and heat it in the microwave on 70% for 2 minutes.

Remove from microwave and pour into a mug. Stir in vanilla. Sprinkle on cinnamon. Enjoy!

It is really nice.

This is a short note tonight, but a note nonetheless!

Saturday, 12 January 2013

Just some neat things I have found on the internet...

Okay. Neat things I have found in the internet.

Pinterest. Now that's a kind of neat thing that you have to have a look at to figure out what, exactly, its purpose is. And I've decided in my own mind that it is a visual book mark system. You may have a passion - say Chocolate recipes. So you look recipes up on the internet. And you find one that is wonderful.... but later you can't find the darned thing! So using Pinterest, you Pin an image from that webpage onto a Board that you have named - maybe Chocolate fondues... (if you have several chocolate fondue recipes, or you think you might like to collect Chocolate fondue recipes). Later when you are feeling a bit bored with life, you might be looking at your Boards - and oh my, the chocolate fondue looks SO good - so you click on the link (and if it hasn't been removed or moved!!) you will go right to that recipe again. Heaven!!!

How about a search engine? This doesn't sound too exciting until you need to find something on the internet. I have to tell you my favourite one is Google - but not the simple page. I like Google's advance search page. In that portion of the search engine, you can put an exact phrase in. Remember the lyrics of a song (or part of them) but have no idea of the artists or the title? In the exact phrase window type the portion you remember - and click search. I have an iPod, which I love, and I love to buy music from iTunes - but I can NEVER remember who sang it or what it was called!!

Facebook. I love facebook. It has its weird moments - but I love keeping in contact with my friends, and sharing pictures and ideas. I frequently play a game (only one at a time, is my new rule) on facebook - that's enough time wasting for me. But I love to look at other quilter's work - and many of us share on facebook.

Craftsy. I LOVE craftsy's classes. I don't buy much fabric off of the internet - I like to touch it, as well as look at the colour, but I have bought two of Craftsy's classes on the topic of quilting and I have been MOST impressed with them!!


Have you looked at the free tutorials that Jenny Doan does on YouTube from the Missouri Star Quilting Co.? What fun! Very professionally done, and so fun and informative! YouTube itself is pretty neat. You can even share videos with your family privately on YouTube.

Blogspot is pretty cool too. If you want to start a simple Blog (web log, in case you wonder where that word came from) this is a pretty nice spot to be.

Urban Dictionary is a good place to look up slang terms and all those initials that are so baffling the first time you see them. By the same token, it is definitely an 'adult' site - the slang is often a bit rude. WTF does not mean, Well That's Fantastic!

Canada411. My mom and dad frequently ask me to confirm an address or phone number or find someone in Canada. I have even, although not using Canada411, found relatives in the States for them. Canada Post has all the postal codes in Canada too - if you have the snail mail addy, they have the postal code. And if snail mail means nothing to you, I refer you to the Urban Dictionary above.

Are you looking for quilt blocks? Have you looked at Quilters Cache? Oh my heavens!!! It is wonderful, I have had such a lovely time scrolling through blocks.

Another wonderful quilting site is About Quilting. Terrific - patterns, how tos, blocks, basic stuff, intermediate and advanced. It is wonderful too, well written and a huge resource!!

Quiltville is pretty neat! Bonnie Hunter writes an entertaining blog (not always about quilting) and does a mystery quilt each year. I haven't taken the time to get ready to do it - but I have two 'flesh' friends who are and at least one of my facebook friends is making this year's. I would LOVE to do it... when I have time! :-)

I like podcasts - and several of the ones that I like (mostly on Science or Social Science and Humanities) have webpages where you can listen to their podcasts. Quirks and Quarks, the Vinyl Cafe, Naked Astronomy, Naked Scientist, RadioLab, 99% Invisible, Stuff You Should Know, all come to mind.  I listen to these on my iPod, while I quilt, frequently!!

Have you ever watched a Ted Conference? They have a webpage, and two podcasts - one is audio only and one is video - and the video one is better... they are on a range of topics. And I haven't watched any that weren't amazing! (There must be some that aren't amazing, there are more than 1000 of them available!)

Oh, the Nova Scotia Webcams are worth looking up and taking a boo at!! I especially like the Peggy's Cove Lighthouse webcam - when the weather is not so good, the waves are amazing!!

Other things that I have looked for on the internet lately; hiking or snowshoeing trails near where I live (they are there!),  and beaches I should see in Nova Scotia (they are there too), rules for Mah-jongg (found them and they saved my bacon!), maps for various places - downtown Halifax, Westville, NS, Dartmouth NS. The hours of operation and the directions to find various stores. I have bought movie tickets on the internet and done Christmas Shopping on same. Lee Valley has its catalogues on the internet - wonderful!! And Amazon can save your life!!

I love my eReaders and I like looking at Project Gutenberg - if you go on there, make sure you spell Gutenberg with only one U and two Es. Lots of ebooks all in the public domain!

I think I could go on and on - there are lots and lots of great things out there. There is also a lot of junk, so you have to be somewhat discerning. It is frustrating if you have found something in the past and you can't find it again... but sometimes you find such neat things.

This is another reason why I like facebook. I have a facebook friend who is the BEST at finding neat stuff on the internet and then she SHARES her links on facebook.

Well, excuse me, I have a class on Craftsy that I ought to be listening to or a Big Star Block that I ought to be making. Jenny Doan at Missouri Star Quilting Co, showed me how!!!

Have fun!





Friday, 11 January 2013

Just moving to Nova Scotia...

I thought you might be interested in our final move.

Beloved Dearly and I have been retired (really retired) since July 11th (I think that was the date), 2009.

Our retirement posting took us to the small town of Truro, NS. Truro, proper, has about 1140 inhabitants, but Truro and Surrounding area have about 35,000. So Truro has just about everything anyone could need.

In actual fact, Beloved and I bought a lot ONE block out of town, as luck would have it ON THE RIGHT side of Fir Avenue (the other side has lots of springs and so they have problems with drainage off their lots.)

We bought the lot in 2008, so we owned it for almost a year before our house went on it.

I think it needed to be cleared before the house went on it... :-)

We made the arrangements with a 'manufactured' home company to have a house put on the lot and we headed back to Ontario to work on plans.

After emailing back and forth, we began to get paperwork from the manufacturer... and we firmed everything up by email. I suspect we were their first email sale.



As I look at the plans now, I can see some differences between this view and what actually happened, but it was pretty close!

The house in Ontario was on the market for 2 1/2 weeks. We were pleased when it sold. Okay, that is a MILD understatement - we were ecstatic when it sold! I wanted to tell my Mom and Dad, but they were enroute home from Florida and I was going to be away for the weekend, so I went out with my camera.
And I took THIS picture. Unfortunately, we had NO idea whether the camera had taken the picture or not (now I know that the camera takes 12 seconds on this setting to take the picture, MOREOVER it has an orange light that flashes three times before it goes off AND it beeps three times. We missed all that - and we just stood there, waiting...) And because we were busy, I didn't take a second one - so this is NOT the most flattering picture in the world, but we were over the moon!!! I printed the photo off on normal paper (probably in black and white) wrote a two sentence note on the back, and popped it into the mail. Mom and Dad got it when they got home, and looked at us standing there by our sign and said, what a great picture of Beloved and Jane. Dad said that Mom had actually filed it away before he suddenly thought, WAIT A MINUTE!!! And he got it out to look at the sign again. Yes indeedy - it says SOLD!

We had an elderly cat, named Ichabod. Icky had gone through all the renovations in Ontario, getting the house ready to go on the market - and then the 2 1/2 weeks of open houses and strangers walking through. He was good boy and he put up with all of that with grace. We bought a trailer so that we could move Ichabod with us. And two weeks before he turned 17 and about 5 weeks before we moved into the trailer, Ichabod had a stroke and died.


In June, I flew down to watch the house 'land'. I have to tell you it was fascinating to see two big trucks drive up the street with our house in two pieces on the back of it. Beloved was away for work, so I took a few pictures and a movie...

Here is the front half of the house... I don't think I got a picture of the other half (I did take movies of it!) I was so excited!!!



They used this big crane to pick up the front of the house and very slowly and carefully place it, ever so gently, on the foundation. And after a short rainstorm, they did the same thing with the back half of the house. They allowed me to go inside the two halves and look around before they went on the foundation (while they were still on the flatbeds of the trucks). I was not allowed to go in AFTER they got it on the foundation until the next day when they had all the supports in underneath.

And the afternoon of that day, I flew back to Ontario to finish work (two more weeks), greet the movers and then prepare to get ourselves to Nova Scotia!

So Beloved and I packed our new ceiling fans, our house plants except for the Norfolk Pine that a friend put in the backseat of her car to deliver, got ourselves organized in the trailer and we moved to Hilden to the Scotia Pines Campground...
Beloved Dearly is sitting on the picnic table reading. The house plants are in the green bin that is just beyond him!

We spent the summer at Scotia Pines. Nearly daily we visited the work site, until finally the foreman called in August and told me that we couldn't spend each afternoon there. We were in the way of the carpenter and he was busy. (Really it was me who was in the way. Beloved was not, but I was so INTERESTED. Honestly, if they had given me a hammer, I would have pounded in nails, or mudded the basement, or painted something.) Scotia Pines was lovely. But I was bored and finding living in one room a bit confining. And I missed my OWN bathroom. I did not want to share my shower with spiders any more...

We did have some excitement in August. At that time we owned a timeshare week in Ontario, and we left the trailer in NS and headed off for a week's vacation. We had a nice week and we discussed spending the night in New Brunswick, instead of driving the whole way (about 16 hours give or take half an hour) back in one day. Two drivers, good roads, summer time, reasonable weather, that drive was certainly do-able in one day, but we were feeling a bit tired. So on Saturday morning we got up, packed everything into the Jeep, checked out of the timeshare and set off, intending to stop in a hotel in Florenceville that Beloved had stayed in in the past.

Except that, as we got closer to Nova Scotia, the weather forecast became more and more ominous. This was Saturday. Because we had intended to stop for the night we had not left the timeshare at our usual early (oh dark hundred) travelling time. We passed Florenceville without seeing the hotel.

(I'm going to do the aside thing here... the thing about the Maritimes is that the governments are STILL working on the highways. So there are still spots where they are 'putting' the new highway in. They have not quite finished the new road in northern New Brunswick and they are doing MAJOR roadwork between Riviere du Loup in Quebec and Edmundston in New Brunswick that will probably not be finished for another 20 years... Back to the continuing saga....)

When Beloved had stayed at this nice hotel in Florenceville, it had been right on the highway. However between that time and us moving here (maybe three or four years) the highway had moved and the hotel was off the highway. We had roared right by it without realizing that we had missed it.

By this time, however, I was no longer interested in staying in New Brunswick for the night.

A hurricane was forecast to make landfall in Nova Scotia the next morning. And all my worldly goods, were in a trailer that had the windows on one side open just a titch! The table cloth was on the picnic table with those little weights in the shape of strawberries to hold it down - just perfect to be picked up in the wind and thrown THROUGH someone else's trailer window. AND the houseplants were outside.

We arrived in Fredericton at 8 pm - three hours from Truro. And I asked Beloved if he thought he was okay to drive to Truro. We had discussed staying in Oromocto somewhere for the night, but I was no longer comfortable with the thought of not being with the trailer...

We arrived in Truro (about 15 minutes from Hilden) at 11 pm. Beloved suggested we stop for gas, just in case the power was out... So we did that.

We got to the campground, opened the gate (the gate is closed between 10 pm and 7 am, but you just use the rope to open it up, drive in, and then lower the gate again behind you.) and in we went. I needn't have worried too much about the table cloth and the weights - there were only three trailers in the whole park. Needless to say, anyone who could take their trailer and go somewhere out of harm's way, had done so!

We took the stuff out of the Jeep and put it in the trailer. We took the houseplants and put them IN the Jeep's trunk. The tablecloth and weights were put away.

Beloved watched as I very grumpily emptied the cooler and filled the fridge. The thing about the trailer was that there wasn't enough room for two people to do much at the same time. After he listened to me grump and mutter for a few seconds, he announced that he was going to go and take his shower now, since he couldn't put his clothes away until I was done at the fridge and he was only in the way. He took the change dish (the showers were 25 cents for quite a reasonable amount of time and hot water), his towel, and clothes and headed off.

I finished putting the food away, and all of a sudden, I took stock of the situation. Yes, it was midnight, but who cared? We were there, everything was taken care of. If the hurricane woke us up we could sleep again later. The houseplants were okay, the trailer was as secure as we could make it, we were in a sheltered spot, safe and sound. I poured myself a drink, put away my clothes and found my book.

When Beloved came back from his shower, he found me there, happily reading my book, all set for whatever the morning brought.

The Hurricane - and sadly I can't remember his name - was kind of a dud. I think we slept until 11 am. It rained, but I had been in Hilden in heavier rain without a hurricane that summer - it was not a driving rain, it was just rain. And there was not much wind. We had no problem. The power did not even flicker!

By the end of the third week in August it was getting cold at night. The temperature was dropping to 5 C (about 42F) and we had to turn the furnace on in the trailer. We were supposed to get the key to the house on August 31st.  We were getting anxious. I told Dad we were tired of being in the trailer and he told me he would have gone crazy long before this.

(Another digression - when I was 11 or so, we lived in a small city that had a CN rail yard. And our house was about 3 blocks from tracks that had an uncontrolled crossing - the city by-law called for no train whistles in town limits. However, this track crossed four lanes of traffic, and in the middle of the night, as they shunted cars back and forth, they would sound the train whistle before it crossed this fairly major street. I guess it just about drove the grownups crazy - but to me, it sounded safe and like home.)

In Hilden, we could, quite frequently hear a train. Since then I have discovered that there are several freight trains and a passenger train that goes from points West to Halifax and from Halifax out west. When the trains pass the uncontrolled crossings they whistle; one long, one short, two long. When the wind was right we could hear the train cross at (we assumed) Brookfield, a siding just before the campground, one a ways past the campground and another where it crossed Truro Road. We would generally hear it about 1 in the morning. Dad thought the trains would have driven us nuts by then... but in fact, the trains made me feel like I had come home.

Another short train story and then I will finish this and head to bed. We frequently heard the freight train go by in the daytime. It was obviously moving right along and it would make quite a lot of noise. I finally decided that if it was making THAT much noise, I ought to be able to see the silly thing. So I put my book down, exited the trailer and went out on the street of the campground to look for the train. Nothing but trees. Beloved had followed me out, and was watching me with some puzzlement. "What are you doing?" he asked.

"Looking for the train," I replied, leaning right and left and trying to see around the trees. "It MUST be just beyond those trees."

"Turn around," he suggested.

"What?" I asked, still striving to see the train.

"Turn around," he said again. "It's behind you."

"No way...." I said as I turned. Sure enough, on the otherside of the main road from the campground, there was a rumbling freight train. The sound was echoing off of the hill behind the campground... I actually turned around to look again at the trees - I could hardly believe that all that noise from behind me was actually in front of me!

Anyway, as time does, the days ticked by and the 31st of August came. Dave phoned to make an appointment for the 'hand over'.  He made it for 1 pm. We would do an inspection of the house, sign papers and collect our keys. I was so excited!! All of a sudden, I could not wait to get into the house!! We could SLEEP there tonight!!

Holy smokes that meant we needed blinds for the bedroom!! And to get blinds we needed measurements. Before we got to the house to measure though, Dave called back. The carpenter is going to be done at 1 pm and we need 3 hours to clean the house, so here's the deal. We'll meet there at 5 pm to do the hand over.

Great! Did he mind if we went in to measure the bedroom window? No, not at all.

We arrived at the house at 12:45, rather expecting Rod to be nearly done, as he was going to be out of there at 1 pm... He was NOT done, but was happily working away at various little details (he was an excellent carpenter and I have not heard anyone say anything negative about him at the time or since!) We got our measurements and headed over to the hardware store to buy the custom blinds. I can't remember what else we did for the afternoon, but we went to an early dinner and while we were there, Dave called again. The carpenters were gone (at 4:30) finally, and his wife and mother-in-law were cleaning the house. Could we meet at 7:30? Of course.

We arrived at the house at 7 pm. Dave wasn't there yet, but by this time I needed to use the washroom - so I risked interrupting the cleaners to see if they would mind if I went in.

We had put toilet paper, a hand towel and soap in the bathroom so that Rod and John had facilities to use. The cleaners were not at the floor cleaning stage (they had done the bedrooms and bathrooms earlier in the afternoon while Rod was finishing up in the main part of the house) so they were perfectly happy to have me tiptoe through and use the washroom. (Heaven - not a single spider!!)

We started in the basement. Dave gave us the keys and then lead us on a tour of our house. We had already spent lots of time there, looking at every nook and cranny, but he took us around and showed us everything! It was really funny! I was so excited, I felt like I was floating.

After we had our tour and they left, Beloved and I headed back to Hilden, where I packed the Jeep with so much stuff that Beloved told me I was going to break it. (I didn't for one second believe him.) I packed the dirty dishes, dish pan, tea towels, dishclothes, and dishsoap. I packed the food from the fridge into the cooler. I packed up our clothes from the cupboards, scooped up the mattress off of the bed, STUFFED it into the back of the Jeep, along with the blankets and pillows, the food out of the cupboards, the lawn chairs and the two wooden tv trays that I had bought to use because the trailer's table was inconvenient. I packed the towels and facecloths and the bathroom bag (soap, shampoo, etc.) and the two computers, books and movies. I bullied Beloved into the Jeep, and we headed to Truro to spend the first night in our new house.

Because we sold our fridge and stove with the house in Ottawa, we had had to buy a new fridge and stove here. There was a sale early in August, and because of that, we had had them delivered as soon as the flooring was in. So we had a fridge and stove, and we had put some water and pop in the fridge for Rod and John.

We got to the house, fussing and fuming (the Jeep, I'm happy to report did NOT break down because I loaded it up so much) by about 10 pm and brought everything in the house. Good thing I had brought the dirty dishes, because I had not brought any clean ones!!!


We put the mattress on the floor in the master bedroom. We put the soap and shampoo into the shower that had NO SPIDERS! We put the food in the fridge, hung our new blind in the bedroom window, opened our lawn chairs and sat in our new dining room (we didn't want to put the lawn chairs on the hard wood floor in the living room.) All of the light fixtures had bulbs - that was the kind of attention to detail that the builder had put in!! It was a bit echo-y with no furniture, but we put the two tv trays face to face to make a table and we were HOME!

August 31st, 2009.